"A coach who hands you the answer has saved you ten minutes and cost you the muscle."
Coaching is not mentorship.
When I mentor someone, I tell them what I would do. When I coach someone, I do the opposite. I talk maybe twenty percent of the time. The rest is questions, and the answers are yours.
That sounds slow. It isn't. It is the fastest way I know to get a person from "I don't know what to do" to "I know exactly what to do, and I know why." A coach who hands you the answer has saved you ten minutes and cost you the muscle.
I will mentor you when you ask me to. I will be honest with you when something I have lived through is useful. But the default is coaching, and the default is that you do the thinking.




